My name is Chitra and I live in New Delhi, India. A few months ago, my father told me that he had chosen a husband for me. Even though I know Indian culture includes arranged marriages, I started crying. How could I possibly marry a man I did not know?  How could I be expected to live with a stranger and have his children?

The man my father selected is named Kiran. He seems to be very nice, and promises that I can continue my education. Now, the wedding is approaching, and I am getting excited. The wedding will last several days, and tomorrow the pre-wedding ceremonies begin. It will be almost like a parade when Kiran and his family come to my house. Kiran will be riding an elephant.

The wedding will take place under a canopy (called a mandap). I will wear a beautiful red and gold sari. My hands and feet will be painted with henna (like a beautiful tattoo). An important part of a Hindu wedding is the seven steps or sapta padi. As the priest or Brahmin says the 7 promises, we will circle the holy fire 7 times. The promises focus on the loyalty, love, and commitment we will share for the rest of our lives.

Map of India. New Delhi is the capital.